I know that teenage dating and sex is not the best topic to talk about. But the reality is there are so many underlying things about it that need a particular one-on-one conversation. Things like losing someone’s virginity and its effects on the emotional and psychological aspects must get considered. There is also teenage pregnancy and its complications that require a more in-depth understanding. Also, there are the pros and cons of having a baby at a younger age. There is the responsibility of being a child, student, and lover all at the same time as well.
I get that most of you teenagers are often curious about what is going on. Most of the time, you are lost with information because there are limits to your capabilities. So I would like to share some tips that might help. But for a fair warning, some of these tips are somewhat unconventional and not widely accepted by society. Nonetheless, all of these guarantee a realistic approach.
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It is never an achievement to have sex with a lot of different people. Even if you are a boy or a girl, having multiple sexual experiences with different people is not something that you should be proud of. Not only it can cause damage to your physical health, but it is also not helpful in the emotional and mental well-being. It can ruin someone’s reputation. Yes, I’d have to say that there is a thin line between teenage male and female sexual experiences, for that matter. That is because society sees it as usual for boys and an insult for girls. But the entirety of having too much sexual experience for both genders does not guarantee an overall growth.
Engaging in sexual intercourse has been normalized almost in the entire world. With that, people see no problem when it comes to getting in a relationship and eventually doing the act. But as teenagers, it is essential to know the value of using protection. It is not something you should ignore just because no one in both parties feels like using it. Consider utilizing protection associates with the responsibility that goes along your decisions of having pre-marital sex. So for teenagers out there engaging in sexual stuff, I highly suggest you always choose to be smart and safe.
Another tip for young adults out there that practice teenage sex is to avoid recording the act. Cut the crap of thinking that private videos can stay private whenever the hell you kids want. It will eventually come out. So to save yourselves from the humiliation and other people’s judgment, never take a video of you doing acts of lust or entirely having sex. There is no point in keeping a recorded copy of you and your significant other’s intimate moments. There is nothing good in that.
Keep in mind that teenage sex is already risky. Therefore, do not put yourselves in a complicated situation where, in the end, all you can do is regret and cry it out loud.